simple: women are in charge of their own happiness. And they need to take responsibility for sustaining their marriages and teaching their husbands how to communicate and connect. This might sound politically incorrect, but Tova says, none of that matters if it's true. Now the woman who turned a tiny makeup boutique into a multimillion-dollar cosmetics and fragrance empire shows how to build a marriage that's every bit as successful and long-lasting. With her 22 secrets, 12 strategies, and 8 compromises, Tova shows us how to:* Make sure he's the one * Learn the rules of marriage * Express your love * Understand the differences between men and women * Take care of yourself and your needs * Trust each other enough to talk about anything * Accept the fact that the only person you can change is yourself * Discover the temptress in yourself * Learn the secret of dating your husband * Get everything you want out of marriage * and much more